As we continue awakening on our spiritual journeys, we have an increasing need to reexamine all our relationships. The boundaries that worked in the past may no longer apply in the present.
There is a huge difference between being there for our loved ones, peers, work associates, etc. by listening, caring and being supportive. It is when we feel responsible for the well-being, choices, behaviors, and the outcomes of our interactions, that we release our boundary and lose
ourselves in the process.
If we think "we are responsible" we miss the entire purpose of Spiritual living. That is how the ego
hypnotizes and lulls us into a sleep state. That is when we give up our power and begin to play the role of victim.
By reminding ourselves that we are all the fingers on the hand and Source is the hand, then we know that we are each an expression of God. We can work together or independentlyno finger is older, wiser or higher than another. God is the substance and the core of what holds the fingers together. We are not in charge, God Is. We are all an expression of God, children, parents, partners, there are no exceptions.
When we stay with this and receive continued clarity it is much easier to feel our boundaries. Our
inner knowing and core center strengthens and our focus is clearer and brighter.
Then our boundaries are automatic and we don't have to struggle with our relationships. They will be in balance. That is my New Year's Resolution (again). LOL
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