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***Detatching & Allowing***
~Hi~ I loved this.. Very valuable, more on a tricky topic that I always need reminding of.. Trust you get something from it too.. :D))
Throughout your life ...I am sure you have had many experiences ranging from what you "perceived" at the time to be labeled as both the "Good" and the "Bad." As understanding the deeper workings of life, answers have been provided over the years as to how and why life unfolds as it does. It's amazing how we can look back on those previous experiences and find that what we may have been doing at the time, which created outcomes that we had no conscious awareness of can be clearly observed now with an understanding that provides a crystal clear picture of precisely how and why.
As you recall and observe those times ...you may be continually reminded how crucial detachment or "allowing" is in attracting and achieving the fulfillment of our desires.
When we express a desire and then place our focus on "wanting" and "needing", whether it be a fish, a girl, a million dollars or whatever, we are in essence delaying whatever it might be by keeping the predominant focus on the "lack of" and as a result receive just that. Although we may have a sincere desire to attain whatever it might be, at the same time the "not having" or the "lack of having" somehow blends with desire and changes the frequency that only serves to delay the desired outcome.
Desire combined with "clingyness" is much like planting a seed and applying pre-emergent on top of it. Although I believe once planted something "must" grow, until the pre-emergent wears off .....it can't.
Although the desire seed has been planted, many times through our own "clingy focus" we keep the outcome from happening as quickly as it could and would if we would just learn to "allow" it to. This "allowing" is in essence a form of surrender or detachment that keeps us from having to figure out the how and when it will show up and with seemingly magical certainty it does. I've also come to believe that when this happens (this planting of a desire seed) and we attempt to force it, whatever it is, and it doesn't happen, many times we go about doing something else and forget about those seeds which we previously planted and through our own doing kept from sprouting, only to return later once we've "forgotten" and find a fully mature plant failing to remember that it was the initial desire seed that we planted which created it. Then we think, "Wow where'd that come from." We don't need to attempt to impress or force ourself on nature for miracles to occur. Just as we can't force the bud of a flower open without messing it up, we can't force the things that we desire in our lives to happen either, although many times we sure try. When we can learn to plant the seeds of desire..... "Know" or have the "Faith" that the harvest will be forthcoming, detaching from the how and when and enabling us to go about our daily activities, open to the signs and receptive, willing and ready to take the actions that they direct us to take, without "trying" to make it happen or "forcing" it, the results will be attracted to us MUCH FASTER and in ways that seem effortless.
Just like the flower, the bud will open up all on it's own, with seemingly magical certainty and before you know it, the beauty and splendor will be revealed and experienced just by allowing nature to take it's natural and perfectly constructed course.
***********As it relates to you and your outcomes in life, you only need to plant the "desire" seeds in the soil of infinite potential, nurture them, fully trusting and "knowing" that they "must" grow, continue joyfully doing the things that are necessary in each area of your life, remaining open and attentive (but not clingy) to the inevitable means that will show themselves, acting on those that "feel" right and in no time your harvest will be ripe and ready for reaping. All you have to do is learn to "allow" nature to take it's course without analyzing, fretting, and remaining focused on how YOU think the plan should unfold. ********** The Universe is ALWAYS 100% of the time perfect in it's timing and providing the means for your desires to unfold. ********* Your "worrying" or "fretting" about how or when will only serve to delay the inevitable outcome.
~Angel Hugs~ Debra xoxo (AKA WhiteLightAngel-Keen)
Posted On 08/25/2009 04:20:10
***Affirming Abundance*** Daily OM
Hi.. Rosie you'll love this one... All about observing our friend the Squirrel.. and learning from them.. I thought this was a great non threatening analogy which is very refreshing; conquoring the global energy issues by learning & living more life squirrels... Enjoy the read, it's lovely leaves you focussing on abundance.. Blessings Ozi.. June 29, 2009 Native Americans considered all living beings as brothers and sisters that had much to teach including squirrels. These small creatures taught them to work in harmony with the cycles of nature by conserving for the winter months during times when food was plentiful. In our modern world, squirrels remind us to set aside a portion of our most precious resources as an investment in the future. Though food and money certainly fall into this category, they are only some of the ways our energy is manifested. We can conserve this most valuable asset by being aware of the choices we make and choosing only those that nurture and sustain us. This extends to the natural resources of our planet as well, using what we need wisely with the future in mind. Click here to download 3 chapters of Waiting for Autumn
Posted On 06/29/2009 17:34:16
**Detachment**Serenity, Faith & Trust
Hi.. This is a note from Debra (aka WhiteLightAngel) which comes up over and over again.. LOL The Law of Detachment says that in order to successfully attract something, you must be detached to the outcome. If you are attached, you project negative emotions of fear, doubt, or craving which actually attracts the opposite of your desire. You are operating from a position of worry, fear and doubt rather than serenity, trust and faith. Of course there are times when negative emotions are meant to be felt and acted upon, but your dominant emotions should be positive ones. Let go and let God. Anything you want can be acquired through detachment, because detachment is based on resting in the complete grace of God/Universe/Spirit and knowing that He is always working everything through you and together for your greatest good. To be detached is to realize that everything good is from God/Universe/Spirit and nothing at all is from you. It is God doing it through you and the other elements in your reality so there’s nothing to hold on to as your own, all you have to do is to have the right beliefs and let God do it. When you experience uncertainty, you are on the right path so don’t give it up. You don’t need to have a complete and rigid idea of what you’ll be doing next week or next year, because if you have a very clear idea of what’s going to happen and you get rigidly attached to it, then you shut out a whole range of possibilities. Realize that there is an infinite intelligence working alongside your own and it is the one that can bring you a better way or more worthwhile experience. All you have to do is state your intentions and desires and detach from the how and when they manifest.
Posted On 06/26/2009 18:18:54
Uncommon Courtesy- DailyOm
Hi I loved this.. The loudest aspect of this is that we do all notice this graceful gift, in these tougher times, it is very positive and adds richness to life and it is absolutely free.. So like when one candle lights another, the 1st candles loses nothing and the 2nd candle has much to gain, this reminds me of a kind word , gesture or smile.. Lets spread this instead of the swine flu.. :D)) Funny you know, I am 44YO and a working mother of 3, I had a very handsome, young man, with a happy disposition and well brought up smile big and broad at me like a watermelon cracked open at my daughters singing lesson tonight, and when he realised I wasn't the person he was expecting, he didn't hesitate, just kept the dial turned up on full.. I felt in that moment I was truly blessed, and I was touched by his courtesy, it certainly isn't common, we can do our bit tho..
May 28, 2009 We often feel that we don’t have the time or energy to extend ourselves to others with the small gestures that compose what we call common courtesy. It sometimes seems that this kind of social awareness belongs to the past, to smaller towns and slower times. Yet, when someone extends this kind of courtesy to us, we always feel touched. Someone who lends a helping hand when we are struggling with our groceries makes an impression because many people just walk right by. Even someone who simply makes the effort to look us in the eye, smile, and greet us properly when entering a room stands out of the crowd. It seems these people carry with them the elegance and grace of another time, and we are always thankful for our contact with them. Common courtesy is a small gesture that makes a big difference.
Posted On 05/28/2009 08:58:25
**You are born Worthy** - DailyOm
Hi.. This is a particularly good one, esp at these times.. I think everytime I read it I gain some new insight.. It's fantastic.. I have highlighted the most significant pieces below.. I particularly enjoyed the reminder that we are born worthy.. There is nothing we can do so well or too bad that changes that.. It's really a matter of remembering our birthright.. This is something I have been told and read so many times on this journey, and yet I read this and find that I still have a ways to go before I really live it the way God intended me to. How about you..? After some of the previous blogs.. that the only constant is that we will encounter change.. It is nice to be reminded that in the midst of this, our worth is our cornerstone.. our internal constant, if we rely and remember this to be true.. What did you get out of this post? Let us know your thoughts..? Blessings and love to you all.. as we are all worthy and all connected.. This site I believe is evidence of that.. A small piece of evidence.. Ozi.. May 22, 2009 Though much of who and what we are changes as we journey through life, our inherent worth remains constant. While the term self-worth is often used interchangeably with self-esteem, the two qualities are inherently different. Self-esteem is the measure of how you feel about yourself at a given moment in time. Your worth, however, is not a product of your intelligence, your talent, your looks, your good works, or how much you have accomplished. Rather it is immeasurable and unchanging manifestation of your eternal and infinite oneness with the universe. It represents the cornerstone of the dual foundations of optimism and self-belief. Your worth cannot be taken from you or damaged by life’s rigors, yet it can easily be forgotten or even actively ignored. By regularly acknowledging your self-worth, you can ensure that you never forget what an important, beloved, and special part of the universe you are.
Posted On 05/22/2009 18:33:48
This is PERFECT -**SMILE** :D))
This is A GOODY.. I needed a good laugh.. Ozi Shirley & Marcy A mom was concerned about her kindergarten son walking to school. He didn't want his mother to walk with him. She wanted to give him the feeling that he had some independence but yet know that he was safe.
Posted On 05/11/2009 03:24:06
Wise Words, a GOOD read :D)
Hi, I think this is timely read with Mothers Day tomorrow.. Well I don't know about you..
Written By Regina Brett, 90 years old, of The Plain Dealer, Cleveland , Ohio It is the most-requested column I've ever written. My odometer rolled over to 90 in August, so here is the column once more:
Posted On 05/08/2009 19:41:42
Before I was a Mum..:D))
Hey.. I was thinking.. Once we read this and get that warm soft sweet feeling.. Why don't we either add a fav piece or write a fav memory / moment that came to mind, why our Mum's (that's Aussie for Mom Happy Mother's Day.. An Awesome Mum
Posted On 05/06/2009 05:39:34
*** GRACE *** - The Intenders
Good Morning.. As sure as the sun will rise.. These promises are made.. Grace, faith, love & JOY.. Enjoy the article.. Blessings.. Ozi.. The Bridge ~ Step 44 ~ Grace When man remembers his spiritual connection to All That Is, he lives in a most joyous state, wherever he is, whatever he is doing
The Intenders of the Highest Good would like to thank you for joining us as we stroll across The Bridge to our self empowerment. It is our firm intention to provide you with everything you need to become a mighty manifester and create the life of your choosing. At this point we'd like to present you with a loving reminder from The Code. And we intend that you continue using The Bridge to become a powerful force dedicated to the Highest Good of the Universe, yourself, and everyone you touch.
Remember . . . That which is meant to be yours will come to you. Just as those of you who are aligned with the highest good will eventually experience your highest ideal, so shall your daily needs be met. You need never worry about your survival because there was a special mechanism put into place long ago which regulates and guarantees that everything you need will be there for you in the exact moment that you need it. Oftentimes it will not appear until the instant before it is needed, but you may be assured that while you are waiting you are being strengthened. As you learn to trust in this wondrous process, the obstacles and hardships of life fall by the wayside and are replaced by a serenity that knows no limit. These times of great upheaval are truly gifts unto you. You are constantly surrounded by an environment that is conducive for bringing out your most fulfilling form of expression. Your ego, the part of you which is in service to yourself, is giving way to a much larger, grander you'the you that is in service to others. You are blossoming in all your glory, and it is this blossoming that you have always longed for. Be open, be available, and, in the meantime, be at peace. Your prayers and intentions are all being answered. My intention for today is:
Posted On 04/28/2009 16:21:20
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This was just too good not to post.. Especially during these times.. (from 
are all very closly connected..