Throughout your life ...I am sure you have  had many experiences ranging from what you "perceived" at the time to be labeled as both the "Good" and the "Bad."

As understanding the  deeper workings of life, answers have been provided over the years as to how and why life unfolds as it does. It's amazing how we can look back on those previous experiences and find that what we may have been doing at the time, which created outcomes that we had no conscious awareness of can be clearly observed now with an understanding that provides a crystal clear picture of precisely how and why.

As you  recall and observe those times ...you may be  continually reminded how crucial detachment or "allowing" is in attracting and achieving the fulfillment of our desires.

When we express a desire and then place our focus on "wanting" and "needing", whether it be a fish, a girl, a million dollars or whatever, we are in essence delaying whatever it might be by keeping the predominant focus on the "lack of" and as a result receive just that.

 Although we may have a sincere desire to attain whatever it might be, at the same time the "not having" or the "lack of having" somehow blends with desire and changes the frequency that only serves to delay the desired outcome.

Desire combined with "clingyness" is much like planting a seed and applying pre-emergent on top of it. Although I believe once planted something "must" grow, until the pre-emergent wears off .....it can't.

Although the desire seed has been planted, many times through our own "clingy focus" we keep the outcome from happening as quickly as it could and would if we would just learn to "allow" it to.

This "allowing" is in essence a form of surrender or detachment that keeps us from having to figure out the how and when it will show up and with seemingly magical certainty it does. I've also come to believe that when this happens (this planting of a desire seed) and we attempt to force it, whatever it is, and it doesn't happen, many times we go about doing something else and forget about those seeds which we previously planted and through our own doing kept from sprouting, only to return later once we've "forgotten" and find a fully mature plant failing to remember that it was the initial desire seed that we planted which created it. Then we think, "Wow where'd that come from."

We don't need to attempt to impress or force ourself on nature for miracles to occur. Just as we can't force the bud of a flower open without messing it up, we can't force the things that we desire in our lives to happen either, although many times we sure try.

When we can learn to plant the seeds of desire..... "Know" or have the "Faith" that the harvest will be forthcoming, detaching from the how and when and enabling us to go about our daily activities, open to the signs and receptive, willing and ready to take the actions that they direct us to take, without "trying" to make it happen or "forcing" it, the results will be attracted to us MUCH FASTER and in ways that seem effortless.

Just like the flower, the bud will open up all on it's own, with seemingly magical certainty and before you know it, the beauty and splendor will be revealed and experienced just by allowing nature to take it's natural and perfectly constructed course.

***********As it relates to you and your outcomes in life, you only need to plant the "desire" seeds in the soil of infinite potential, nurture them, fully trusting and "knowing" that they "must" grow, continue joyfully doing the things that are necessary in each area of your life, remaining open and attentive (but not clingy) to the inevitable means that will show themselves, acting on those that "feel" right and in no time your harvest will be ripe and ready for reaping. All you have to do is learn to "allow" nature to take it's course without analyzing, fretting, and remaining focused on how YOU think the plan should unfold. **********

The Universe is ALWAYS 100% of the time perfect in it's timing and providing the means for your desires to unfold.

********* Your "worrying" or "fretting" about how or when will only serve to delay the inevitable outcome.

       Debra xoxo (AKA WhiteLightAngel-Keen)